It doesn't matter what age the child may be, it just isn't fair. I just woke up in the same place I was in yesterday. Sort of stuck in shock and excruciating pain. I physically feel as if my heart has been ripped in half.
I can only offer kind words to this family about their loss. And food. Don't forget the tradition of taking food. I did that yesterday. Some reason taking food brings comfort to people on the outside. I took food and picked up H from their house. Heartbroken.
I learned that my H had been texting him all through the afternoon and night. He had been out with his friends when the accident happened.. He died while texting my daughter I believe. They were in a conversation and then his texts stopped. I just got chill bumps typing that out. **Let me add that he was NOT driving the car, he was a passenger in the back seat. I didn't want people to think he was texting and driving.**
There were four in the car, three of them required surgery and you know the fate of the fourth one.
How does one prepare for this sort of thing?? Losing a child.
It made me think about my mom. I'm not sure if you know this but I was a twin. I had a twin brother Michael. We were born very premature. I weighed 2 pounds and 3 ounces at birth and he weighed a little over 3 pounds at birth. Sadly he died when we were seven days old. My mom and dad were very young when we were born, not only were they coming to terms of being parents they also had to deal with a loss of one of their babies. Then they had to bury that baby boy. Oh, goodness. I couldn't even begin to imagine the pain they went through.
I'm sure it changes you for forever.