What drugs are you smoking???? That would be the question I would ask the person doing the promising. I know it was mine when I read this article about this woman giving her husband sex every day for a month for his birthday. Don't even get me started on the woman who wrote the book about promising her husband sex every day for a year!
Don't get me wrong. I love sex. I love sex with Superdad. Sex is good. But I'm not going to put myself in a situation to make love like it's a chore or something I have to do so I don't break a promise. If you read the story I linked above you will find out that some days it was a chore and they just went through the motions. I don't want sex that way. I want sex to be passionate and something we both want at the same time.
I know that I could put more of an effort into having more sex with Superdad. Sure, I could make more time. I just know after taking care of kids all day, cooking, cleaning and such when I go to bed all I think about is sleep. I'm guilty of not making more time for sex with Superdad..
Also, the couple above didn't have children so they were able to be more free about it. It's different when there are little people wandering around the house. Having a child walk in during foreplay is a mood killer! I also think they have a special radar when it comes to parents having alone time together. I know that we've tried to sneak to our bedroom and a few minutes later become the center of attention with the kids.
Anyway, I just don't think you should make these sorts of promises. Giving your husband sex every day for a month or a year. I think if you want sex then have sex. Don't take the fun out of it by making it a chore. You can promise each other to make more time for each other but you don't have to stipulate that sex has to be involved.
Okay, let's talk about this! I'm ready for the comments.