I've been debating to blog about this all morning. I feel that it's important so I am.
Yesterday I was having an emotional day. I was dealing with a couple of things. I won't go into detail because that's not the issue.
I needed to talk to someone about it. Someone that only wants what is best for me. Someone that protects me. Someone that loves me unconditionally no matter what. So, I talked to my best friend last night. My husband.
I told him the emotions I had been dealing with. I just talked. He listened.
He was understanding. He was there for me.
It was awesome to have this closeness with him. To know that I could tell him anything.
I know I disappointed him a bit. For that I am sorry. He also knows that I love him with my whole heart.
We both know our marriage needs a bit of tweaking. When there are kids in the house you tend to put your needs in line. Towards the back of everything else. We both want more out of our marriage together. Now, to accomplish that. We are going to make more time for each other. Go back to doing things together that we used to enjoy as a couple.
So, readers of this blog here's a question for you.
How do you keep the spark alive in your marriage when the kids drain everything from you????
I propose that Superdad take me out on a date. Woo me. I am sure he'd be a lucky man when we get home.
If the kids are asleep that is.