Dear Charter, WHY IS IT TAKING TWO HOURS TO UPLOAD A FOUR MINUTE VIDEO TO YOUTUBE? SERIOUSLY!?!"
I could type a transcript of the whole video before you could even watch it. HA HA!!!
This blog post is where Supermom has a change of attitude and hopes that you do to.
Thank you for all the condolences about my great grandfather passing away this week. It meant so much to get all of them from all of you. Thank you.
Sometimes I will spill the beans about something that happened in our house and Superdad will fuss about it. It doesn't happen often but IT does happen. My response, "It's my blog. If you don't like what you read then don't read it." I think it's rather simple. I blog about things that other moms/women relate to. No biggie.
Superdad you might want to skip this part because I am going to talk about you.
Yesterday when SD got home from work I was watching NCIS with H. My MIL got me hooked to this show when we were in DC. Man, this one channel plays them like 6 hours of the day it seems. Anyway, I could tell SD was in a mood. I asked him what was the matter and his reply was "nothing." He mentioned he was tired and hungry. I told him that I would fix dinner in a minute. To which he MUMBLES, "In 30 minutes." Meaning when the TV show went off. This pissed me off royally. SERIOUSLY. Was that productive? Did it accomplish anything??
So, I got up and went to the kitchen to fix dinner. How dare me sit down on the job!!!!! What the hell was I thinking? He comes into the kitchen telling me that I could watch the rest of the show but nope, I am going to feed everyone like a devoted housewife does. He then tells me he has lost his appetite. I know the feeling because I did mine as well.
He sits at the table balancing the checkbook while I hand out plates. Everyone is eating but him. As I am cleaning the kitchen he eats his dinner alone.
See, this made me angry. Things like this are not called for. Such a total waste of time and energy.
I just want to scream, "HOLY SHIT!! I just lost the only grandfather that I had left. You want to pick a fight about a damn TV show ending and when I fix dinner. Do you not know where the kitchen is?"
~deep breath. in. out.~
Anyway, I am sure you can imagine how the rest of the night went. IN SILENCE!!! Which is how A LOT of our nights end.
I'm tired of this. I have a new plan. A new outlook on life. I spoke about it in the vlog but since it's taking HOURS to upload I will have to type it out for you.
From now on I am going to wake up happy. Love as much as I can. Laugh at the small things. Laugh at everything basically. Experience new things. Meet new people. We are never promised tomorrow so why are we wasting today with petty crap?
That's it. So from now on I want you to be happy, love as much as you can, laugh and enjoy your day.
**UPDATE** I wanted to share an awesome comment that came through on Facebook. Thank you for leaving it!
No one can ever be happy and positive ALL the time. However, I think if we just try to be grateful for what we have in our lives, it is possible to do it MOST of the time.
I don't express it much but you are an amazing woman. I really don't know if I could do all that you do. You rock and I am so happy you are staying on the positive side of things.